Here is something you need to know, and probably a lot of people are going to hate me or disagree with me for writing this post, but this is something I think everyone considering investing in coaching should know.
You’re not broken.
There is nothing wrong with you.
There is nothing wrong with your business.
If you don’t buy my programs, you should not feel guilty, or like you’re not dedicated, or committed, or like you don’t have what it takes.
I think a LOT of coaches and mentors are saying things that promote those feelings AND FULL CONFESSION;
I probably use it myself too, not because I’m a bitch or a I want your MONEY (although I’d be a pretty terrible coach if I couldn’t even grow my own successful business, right, because who wants to learn from someone who doesn’t have their own results to show for it)!?!
because it well, WORKS into getting you to buy. FEAR is a great motivator.
And if you have to feel slightly AFRAID in order to buy then you know what, actually, I will use that not because I’m ingenuine or non-authentic but because if you DON’T feel in some way challenged or stretched then what on earth is the point?
Change, growth- it IS uncomfortable.
And if you’re not ready for that we probably aren’t ready to work together, full stop.
And yes, the investment will be uncomfortable.
You will have to invest your TIME, and your MONEY.
And if it isn’t uncomfortable to do that, you probably aren’t going to value it and I KNOW this because when I first founded Shining Lights I charged $18 per month and OF COURSE people signed up! It was eighteen dollars per month, I spend that in one coffee sitting!!
But the results??? Well what do you think?
Were people REALLY ready to show up, do the work, make MONUMENTAL shifts requiring massive amounts of trust, self-discipline, and work and gain LIFE CHANGING RESULTS for something that costs as much as a pizza???
what do you think.
So this is the truth.
If you want to invest in programs but you think they may be slightly too much or you’re umming and ahhing over whether you can afford it? GOOD, you should be.
because stepping up IS a massive commitment and sometimes you really WON’T be ready for that uplevelling and at EVERY LEVEL of business and life there will be times when you step up, times when you doubt, times when you lose faith, times when you back out and times when actually there are things you want more and times when you just need to sit a little with where you’re AT and seeing why that is–
But you don’t let it stop you.
Not because you’re broken.
Not because you will FAIL without my help.
And not because of this kind of misguided notion we have that we believe to be true that ALL FEAR IS BAD AND MUST BE ELIMINATED
Simply because of that kind of fear-
that says ARGH that sounds good and I want it BUT…
means there is work to be done.
And it might not be now. And that’s ok. I won’t penalise you for that!! and you can still carry on reading these posts and newsletters and if you ACTION them you’ll still gain massive value but it IS actually pretty hard to do that ALONE and the POINT of having a mentor or coach to help you is to admit that actually
You’re ready to step up, admit you need help, admit you DON’T know it all, say you are ready, and want to create a massive change in your life.
And that you know it will NOT cost you the same as a pizza, both in terms of the financial cost and the time it takes you to eat it, purely because nobody gets to the top of their industry by gaining information for the same price as a pizza.
But at some point it WILL have to be now.
At some point, you will get tired of it not working, of the nagging feeling that says you want more, of the feeling like everyone else is overtaking you, of the feeling you’re constantly working and spinning your wheels and of the SLOWWW traction
And at some point you WILL have to decide-
That the fear?
Now is your time. Now is the time you’re going to use that fear for what it is, that greatest of teachers, to truly understand what it means to ‘feel the fear and do it anyway’.
That ok, you’ve got this far on your own, but actually it’s been bloody hard and it’s taken FOREVER and if you want to get to the NEXT level?
Time to step it up.
Time to realise there are people in this world who are one step ahead of you and those lessons THEY learned along the way, the place THEY are at right now, where THEY are at in business and HOW they got there and what they had to do???
YOU can learn from. You can learn from not just their lessons so you don’t make those same costly, expensive mistakes taking YEARS to figure out your own SLOW GROWTH route because you POINT BLANK REFUSE to even consider that actually – something or somebody else could be TRANSFORMING FOR YOU
hey, keep figuring it out alone if that’s what is WORKING-
but if it isn’t
I’m running workshops at the moment for INSANELY LOW INVESTMENTS.
My last one??? $67
My next one??? $97
For sharing information I’ve paid THOUSANDS to gain (Want to know how much I’ve paid to join programs in the last MONTH alone??? NEARLY EIGHT THOUSAND DOLLARS IN TOTAL in the last MONTH)
WHY because I hope that the INFORMATION you gain in these programs is ENOUGH for you to realise that – this stuff can be life changing. And I HOPE that as a result you will come to me to work more closely together because I know what you will learn is SO INSANELY valuable that you can’t help but see that working together, 1:1, with my full support and hands on and in your business could be even MORE valuable but if you DON’T?
That’s ok. I’ll still be here for when you DO decide, and when you ARE ready.
I just might be slightly more expensive
Love and Light xo
My next workshop is COMING UP! It’s called The Strategy Secrets Workshop;
And it’s for all of you who want to know the specific strategy around HOW to make it happen.
Want multiple income streams, to stop keeping all of your eggs in one basket, to have several streams of income flowing in to you? To know PRECISELY how to launch, how to know what your clients want, how to create the sales page, even down to how I write mine and lay them out and the very specifics WHY I do them in this way) your sales FUNNEL (let’s get your email strategy sorted once and for all, yes???)
AND I’m going to be looking at how to create YOUR diverse income stream FAST. Get those ideas out of your head, and becoming something you actually LOVE to do, work on, and use to either GROW your visibility (we’ll be looking at how to market and MAXIMISE what you do)! and what to actually DO with it once you’ve written / created/ started to create whatever it is you desire>>
If you want to know the HOW, specifically, that I’ve created my products and courses fast and know concretely what to say to sell, how to create my sales pages, what to create so that people will buy and the WHOLE TIME creating genuinely what I want to create???
Get the Strategy Secrets Workshop. It’s my brand new workshop and it’s going out a week today.