How often do you ask others for advice on social media?
So often I see many of us on facebook asking others for advice. But then you see the same people asking the same questions in other groups, and it’s hard to sometimes not think- the reason you are in these groups constantly asking for business advice is because you are wasting half your time on facebook, rather than actually TAKING ACTION!
But it’s not just that. It’s the way that we feel that we NEED to ask for the opinions of others, when really the true answer to probably 90% of the questions we ask will always be – you have to do what works for you. What’s the point of asking for the opinions of hundreds of others on the ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ way to do things? And worse, constantly asking similar questions about the right and the wrong way to go about XYZ?
Look, I get it. I really do. Especially when starting out, we want to make sure we aren’t ‘doing it wrong’ and that we should learn from others.
But this is just one more example of how we go backwards in business instead of forward!
And this isn’t just limited to those new in business. I only learned what I am about to tell you after 10 years+ of being a photographer.
My business transformed when I realised that I didn’t have to ask anybody’s opinion on the ‘right’ way of doing things. Not just ask. But I didn’t have to care about anybodys opinion either. About what worked for them, and what didn’t.
Once you have the knowledge of the basics *(which can be gained far more quickly from doing a course, reading brilliant books, and possibly a workshop, than can be gained from countless hours on facebook) it’s YOU who makes the rules, and if you GET that YOU can make these rules, based on your HAPPINESS, guess what? Your business only increases!!
For example. When I first started out, I ran a Google Adwords ad. I hated running that ad. It offered my already cheap services at 50% off, and I felt like a cheap, worthless ‘budget’ photographer running seedy ads practically begging for business. Did it bring in clients? Absolutely. Were they the kind of clients I wanted to work with? Not in a thousand years. They were clients who just wanted a ‘camera for hire’ and didn’t care two hoots about the person behind it. Which is about as far removed from my ‘dream client’ as you could get.
But I did work with them because I convinced myself that I ‘needed’ them. I needed their money, needed their images for my site, I ‘needed’ real – life images on show.
What a load of junk. It would have been a hell of a lot better for my business if I had never created those ads for my business in the first place.
Not only did it completely keep me at ‘cheap photographer’ level mentally, in my own head, it also wasn’t the quickest or best way to gain clients or images for my site.
It would have been so much better if I had spent that time organising my own shoot or even a mini shoot I could have planned, designed, + created in 48hours flat. I could have sent this to a blog thus gaining a valuable credit, a feature, and a great business contact, not to mention exposure that might lead to a booking at a much better package rate.
I could have then run a decently thought out Facebook ad campaign and attended a wedding fair, and doing those three things would have probably earned me far more in my business that running a load of soul- destroying Adwords. But I did Adwords because at the time that’s what everyone else told me ‘works’.
And the craziest thing is, this weren’t even successful photographers here, or particularly well established, or photographers who had lovely clients they adored or who were fully booked and crazily happy. They were local, struggling, budget photographers. If you are going to head somewhere for advice about where to go to grow your business – trust me – it is in your best advantage to go to someone who you see has actually ACHIEVED the things that you would like to! That’s not rocket science.
The most hilarious or not so hilarious (at all, really) part is that after years and years of working in and educating myself about marketing— I knew exactly where Adwords work and where they don’t, and what services and products they are good for… And I ignored every single thing that I knew, and did what everyone else did because it ‘seemed’ to work for everyone else so that’s what I should be doing!! That’s just so ridiculous.
I see this time and time again now too with some of you asking for advice on or telling me that you’ve spent loads of money on blog ads or running giveaways or competitions to advertise and I then I ask you why and you kind of say … Well, I thought it would be a good way to reach people…. And what you REALLY mean is… Because all of these other photographers advertise here so it must be a good idea!! Because it has readers!! Who are brides!! (Or mothers or whatever). Or the worst one – because I had a booking from it! So it must be working, right?
The point is I’m not knocking blog advertising – in fact I highly support it- I think blog advertising works really well if you nail exactly which blog it is you should be working with.
But if you ever get that slightly icky feeling when designing a blog ad, or you’re uncomfortable your ad won’t stand out, or you’re wondering if it will really work, or you’re not sure if it works FOR YOU, or you’ve been on a blog for six months and you’ve heard crickets – guess what – honey, this isn’t your way.
So you’re either on the wrong blog for you, and you need to find the one that IS right for you and your clients, or, you need to find another way.
I never again ran google ads. It felt awful to me despite gaining 12 bookings in 4 weeks. My phone ringing off the hook. It never felt true to me. It always felt icky and salesy.
This isn’t just about sales.
I used to do location visits prior to the day. Please – if you do these and you don’t enjoy spending 3 hours travelling to spend an hour at a venue where the light is dramatically likely to change on the day of the big event anyway- have an idea. Stop doing them. Why did I ever think it was a good idea to do location recces? Because Jose Villa talked about how he does his.
Jose Villa does them! That means I must do them!
How crazy. Aside from the facts that Jose Villa works in a country where the light is pretty much constant, or generally stays in accommodation close to the venue in terms of destination weddings, AND doesn’t have kids he would rather be at home with / has to be at home to breastfeed, I am NOT Jose Villa! I am ME! And I am spang-dankly-ok with that. Because I don’t live in a country with constant sunshine and I’ve chosen not to shoot destination weddings anymore right now and I do have two kids who I would much rather be snuggled up with watching Frozen reruns, than traipsing around the grounds of a castle in midwinter.
How about I turn up 45 mins early on your day for the recce? How about I meet with you on Skype instead of travelling an hour or three for a coffee? How about I stay at home in the warm with my beautiful babes and enjoy our meet and our chat because deep down I know there are much better ways for me to spend my time than spending hours staring at my steering wheel?
And here are some other changes I made that might surprise you.
I quit having business cards. I know! No business cards! But I just didn’t enjoy spending hours and hours designing them, and they always felt like a massive waste of time, and I never seemed to have one to hand anyway and I’d spend that uncomfortable awkward moment when someone asks for your card scrabbling about in my bag pockets and wallet in the hope of finding one (that wasn’t crumpled and baby-stained) so I always used to take people’s numbers instead which worked MILES better for me than handing out cards that got buried in someone elses handbag trash. So I finally just went ok- no more business cards, and that was that. And I feel relieved now that every time the moo discount sale lands in my inbox that I don’t have to rapidly sit down and spend my whole day fiddling about with my cards or orders.
Maybe I’ll order some more one day. But right now I feel light and relieved of something that wasn’t working for me or right for me.
How about this. My photography website. For ages I procrastinated around my website. I wanted to take it offline as I didn’t want to handle enquiries this year while I focus on the FPA. I didn’t want to maintain a site and keep it looking gorgeous and well blogged because that would be pointless when I’m not working to attract clients, not to mention a giant time suck. But what held me back was you. I kept thinking- if I don’t have a website, how will anyone believe I’m an actual photographer??! Why would you trust me and want to work with me??
And then I got out of my own way and took it down and then I realised if anyone wanted to see my work that bad they could just google me. Hello, modern technology.
I also don’t do client welcome packs, I’m (mainly) a fine art film photographer whose branding ISN’T neutral, pastel, or watercolor, (in fact my logo is a big chunky black SQUARE– the very opposite), I am friends with many of my clients on Facebook, and I do a whole host of other things that I’m not ‘supposed’ to do.
Just one more thing I did that made ME happy and my businesses work for ME, not on anybody else’s terms or based on what everyone else was doing. And my business was a massive success for me and hit all of my goals both financial and personal because of, not in spite of, my lack of business cards, my black square logo, my not-so-pastel film photography, my client boundaries. Etc. Because they set me apart. Because my business comes from my heart. Because my business fulfills me and my clients can SEE that and relate to it and yes they BOOK me because of that. (Amongst other things).
And what this really is about is cleansing your business. Getting rid of all the junk within it that holds you back both in terms of time and money and happiness and energy and profits and about a million other things that magically seem to transform from ‘bad’ to ‘good’ once you get over your stumbling blocks that you place in your own way.
It’s also about believing in yourself and uncovering and knowing what it is that makes you happy. And the reason your business grows when you gain the confidence to be able to remove all of that JUNK that seems to work for other people but really and truly makes you honest to god MISERABLE and FED UP and even sometimes wondering if you should QUIT, is because all of a sudden your business becomes EASY. Because you are fulfilling your PURPOSE!! When you are confident in who you are, your place here, your mission and your grand purpose in life + business (because let’s not pretend you can separate those two things) you don’t HESITATE in getting rid of those things which don’t serve you because you SEE how much they are holding you + your beautiful POTENTIAL back! And the end result is this only BENEFITS your business + clients!
Nobody wants to work with a photographer who is truly miserable they have had to traipse around a castle for three hours in the freezing cold who would rather be back at home in the warm! You think your clients won’t pick up on that, like you can fake it without anyone knowing???
You know. Even if they don’t.
And you can’t fool yourself that some of these things make you unhappy. They don’t keep you working at your optimum level. You aren’t fully productive when you have an endless to-do list full of things you haven’t actually gotten around to doing because, really, you don’t actually WANT to do them.
You can go your own way.
And it’s actually essential to go your own way if you want to succeed. Look at every other ‘big name’ photographer out there, and they didn’t get there because they copied somebody else’s model of what running a business ‘should’ be like. Back to Villa- he shot film at a time when everyone was raving about how digital was making film redundant. Guess he didn’t too badly out of following what it was that made him truly happy. How ironic now that everywhere you look, people are rummaging in the depths of ebay and on social media and in garage sales to hunt for film cameras.
BECAUSE WHEN YOU STAND OUT, and you are SO GOOD at what you do BECAUSE you love it, every single part of it, you actually become, live and breathe and EMBODY this quote
What in your business right now makes you feel awkward, uncomfortable, is time consuming, or you just generally don’t enjoy doing?
Make a note of the tasks that you carry out each day. Which tasks are really not your favourite?
Is there anything you can get rid of, change, or outsource?
Allowing yourself to say no to these things makes space in your life for all of the aspects of your business that you love, and that earn you more money. Low- value tasks that don’t spiral into big time suck vacuums because you actually really dislike doing them.
I used to feel SO blessed to be a photographer that I felt like I should enjoy every single task associated with my business. Like paperwork was a gift, accounting was something I should enjoy. Except, I never really did, and then I used to beat myself with the guilt stick every time I avoided doing them, because surely every other photographer filed their tax return on time and was ON IT with their accounting and paperwork and didn’t tend to just float around in an office strewn with receipts some of which were over three years old.
I felt guilty if I didn’t do the things I disliked. Or, I ignored the bad feeling and told myself I should just get on and do it.
Why do we tell ourselves those things?? Why did I feel like I had to go and do location recces, have business cards, and do all of those other things I would rather not be doing??
Because we let ourselves listen to myths. In the same way that people who hire a Nanny but don’t have a full time job or business are often assumed to be lazy parents, or if you hire a cleaner you’re lazy. Even if you’re a full time mummy and business owner, if you’re house isn’t continually spotless at all times, you’re probably a bit lazy.
What a lie! What myths are these that we get caught up in! (and thank GOD I got over the last one).
Just because I don’t like accounting doesn’t mean I’m a bad business owner or bad at maths! Just because I’d rather use my phone than a business card doesn’t mean I’m not a professional!
We have to stop standing in our own way!
Do the things that make you happy. Get rid of the things that don’t, or transform them, or outsource them. What three things can you get rid of, change, or outsource from your business TODAY that doesn’t make you happy?
Make your business something that nourishes and fulfills you from every angle.
Because it’s also a great big myth that running a business has to be HARD WORK. That there always has to be a ton of sacrifice involved.
{That is also someone else’s belief about how you ‘should’ run a business}.
Your business is exactly this- YOUR business.
Let it make you happy in every way. Or spend all of your time on social media asking anyone who will listen how you should run your business, and let them decide for you what it is that makes you happy. You decide.
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